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The changing world of conflict: Are your teams trained for the world we now navigate daily?

By James Adams

January 15th, 2026

3 mins

Written by James Adams, IKON Trainer

The changing world of conflict at work

Not long ago, certain environments felt predictable, safe, manageable. Today many teams are left saying the same thing, “Something has changed, and we’re feeling it”. Conflict feels more common. Emotions scale faster. Situations that once stayed contained can now end up quickly turning into risk.

Frustration and aggression within, and towards, frontline work has become increasingly common, especially verbally. Societal expectations have shifted while the gap between resource and demand is increasing, making it customer experience a more difficult process.

So what’s really happening? Are we seeing more conflict, or is there less tolerance, less understanding, and more pressure on your people?

The research is proving the pressure

Something at IKON we hear often, “we don’t have time for regular training”. It is often neglected until pressure is applied after an incident. But here’s the uncomfortable truth: The cost of not training shows up anyway. The cost often just shows up later, and more painfully. In high-pressure environments, having the confidence and skills to de-escalate matters.

Research consistently shows that organisations who prioritise ongoing training see measurable benefits, including around a 17% increase in productivity. Not because people work harder, but because they work with more confidence, clarity and fewer avoidable disruptions.

Take healthcare as one example. The number of aggressive and violent incidents reported by NHS staff has risen sharply from 91,175 in 2022-23 to 104,079 in 2024-25. That’s the equivalent of around 285 incidents being reported every single day. Behind each of those figures is a person. This is why training is more than a cost, but protection, commitment and our duty of care.

The drivers behind today’s conflict

Conflict doesn’t live in isolation. It’s shaped by systems, environments and context. The statistics show it’s becoming more common, but why? Some of the most common drivers of conflict we see are:

Waiting times – Increase anxiety and perceived injustice.
Distrust – In systems, decisions or authority.
Financial strain – Can intensify frustration and shape expectation.
Trauma exposure – Both for service users and staff.
Understaffing – Leads to rushed communication and missed cues.
Emotional labour – With little space to reset.

None of these are new, but together they’re increasingly common and creating faster escalation on all sides.

When expectations collide with reality

Many of today’s conflicts don’t start with anger. They start with expectation – no matter the industry. People arrive expecting speed, certainty and solutions (often shaped by previous experiences or expectations), narratives or organisational promises that frontline teams don’t control. When reality doesn’t match those expectations, frustration fills the gap.

For staff, this can feel deeply unfair. They’re managing people’s needs, policies and pressures they didn’t create, while absorbing the emotional impact of decisions made elsewhere. Over time, this mismatch wears people down.

This is where conflict becomes more than a momentary challenge. Without the skills to acknowledge emotion, explain boundaries clearly, and reset expectations early, pressure builds quietly in the background. Conversations shorten. Tension rises. Small issues begin to carry disproportionate weight.

The long-term value of investing in people

When organisations invest in their people, the impact rarely shows up at once. It shows up over time. It shows up in quieter corridors, in calmer conversations, in decisions made with understanding.

People who feel supported and prepared don’t just cope better in difficult moments, but they feel happier at work. They’re more likely to stay, to engage, and to trust that their workplace has their back when things get challenging. This is where the long-term value really sits.

When training focuses on confidence, emotional awareness and applicable skills, it strengthens more than an individual’s capability. It shapes culture. Teams start to communicate more clearly, early warning signs are noticed sooner, escalation becomes less frequent. And when it does happen, it’s handled with greater control.

Because a confident team reduces burnout, absence, and labour turnover. It means more morale, more output and better safety. They help create safer, more positive workplaces for everyone around them. Investing in people is a long game. But it’s one that pays back in stability, confidence and trust – the things every organisation relies on when pressure is highest.

Sector snapshot: Conflict in the NHS

Reports consistently show rising incidents of aggression towards healthcare staff, often linked to delays, access pressures and emotional distress. These circumstances are frequently out of their control, meaning they’re absorbing fear, frustration and grief, day after day.

Without strong de-escalation and personal safety skills, pressure transfers straight to the frontline. When this stress is carried into every interaction, safety risks can grow. Environments and situations which haven’t been prepared for conflict become more than protecting personal safety but others’ too.

Are you teams trained for today or yesterday?

IKON Trainer James Adams assisting three learners in managing an exemplary difficult situation.

IKON Trainer, James Adams delivering training.

Many organisations still rely on personal skills. But people are looking for something more structured so they can have something they can rely on. It puts boundaries in place and manages situations in an ethical way. It’s important to have the ability to challenge people’s behaviour when it isn’t acceptable and have a process to support that.

Learning these skills can provide teams with confidence for life. Staff can move from being reactive, to pro-actively managing conflict with a step-by-step process.

Plan for pressure before it arrives

High-pressure periods rarely announce themselves in advance. They build quietly — through staffing gaps, rising demand, and teams carrying more than usual. Many organisations only react once that pressure is already being felt, when options are narrower and decisions are rushed. Planning ahead creates space. It allows you to choose training that fits your reality, schedule it around your people, and build confidence before strain turns into risk.

Early action isn’t about being organised for the sake of it. It’s about protecting your teams, your service and your ability to respond well when things get harder.

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